This is Chris writing a guest blog... I don't use mine enough to really post on there, and Becky has a much more captive audience than mine does. So guess what? You get to be the lucky ones to read my thoughts for tonight.
There are few moments in life that really serve as difference makers. I'm constantly fascinated by the thought, "I wonder if today I will encounter something that I will never forget." That thought runs through my mind often. So what I'd like to do is post a few difference makers that I've had in my life in hopes of challenging you and giving you insight into a male perspective so you can either understand your husbands better or understand men in general better. I don't claim to be the typical man... but I do know from experience that some of the things that get my mind working in overdrive are the very same things that have impacted other guys that I've been privileged to know.
In my opinion, there is a book that every guy should read. Every girl has already read it... but the story from the male's perspective in the story is so much more powerful (in my mind) than the story of redemption. The book is Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers. It's the story of Hosea placed in modern times (1800s probably). The story of Michael Hosea loving his wife... at first glance before he knew anything about her, talking to her instead of taking advantage of her as a prostitute, providing for her selflessly, teaching her how to be a farmer's wife, pursuing her in marriage, refusing to let her run away and finally getting out of the Lord's way so He could fully have her heart instead of him. It's the very definition of manhood I wished we saw more in our leaders. It's my hope that Christian husbands would be characterized by this kind of love and our definition of leaders moves from athletes and politicians to husbands and fathers.
Mark Driscoll - Marriage & Men (Ladies, listen to this at your own risk)
Mark Driscoll - Marriage & Women (For the ladies specifically... this one hasn't changed my life. Just thought some of you would be interested)
Matt Chandler - Flame Part 1 (This sermon taught me what love should look like and planted seeds when I was single so I could hope for my life with my wife one day)
Matt Chandler - Sanctification in Marriage (Great for husbands and wives to listen to together and for singles of all ages if you really want to understand God's design for marriage instead of Hollywood's)
Things like this have been tools in God's hands to teach me and change me. Are you afraid to be changed or do you challenge yourself in hopes that you will be changed? How you answer that question will help determine the course of your life.